Short

Normally, there's always that one mother fucker who just have to say shit about height then it all went down hill from there. It make me piss off even more when the Daniel Radcliffe, main actor in Harry Potter, start getting mock by the media when people find out how short he is (5'5"). Even though, people been loving the series year and there has been no problem but no for some reason him being not average height is a problem.

Some people are vapid, frothing cunts. That's a judgement you need to be able to make about people. If you can learn to love your frothing vagina of a family even though they spew that shit, you're probably a better person than they are just for that. Exacerbating this even more is the tall guys who shout about how they have some mystical privilege over all short people due solely to their height. I don't know how tall this guy is or anything, but let me be the first to tell you, it doesn't matter: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYDznRaAl20  

Watch this guy’s videos and you will feel better.

Being short is the shit, embrace it. I'm 5 foot 6 and it's great. You get to weigh less than all your friends by default. You barely have to pack any muscle on your body at all to look fucking ripped. You never have to worry about not having leg room. Less stress on your joints (especially knees) and a bunch of other shit. And btw, girls don't give a fuck how tall you are. I've had girls 6’ foot tall flirt with me

Remember that around half the population will be below average, so just because you aren't in the upper half, doesn't mean you're abnormally short.

1) You can see an endocrinologist just in case you do have some wiggle room to grow further and have a thyroid issue. If you are under age 25 and your growth plates aren't finished, do it.

2) Do something unique and charitable that is all you, and volunteer, or accoladelike. Be late, cause you were at the soup kitchen. Apply for 25 internships, so you can get accepted to something they can brag about. Finish something, like a restoration. I know there are moments in your life you have zero energy to do 110% when it's all failing around you, but you can put your mind to it and figure out something to pat yourself on the back when getting faced with "what about you anon? What's new?" Be humble. Let someone else answer it.

Don't worry what people say, you might just hang around tall people. Stop caring about what other people will say about you. If that is the issue, then it's not their fault to talk about it: they will fucking talk about everything, even if you were too fat, too skinny, too gay, or too tall, people will talk about you and will look down on you. People laugh because it don’t mean shit, only if you let it. It’s like being a little fat or bald, funny but irrelevant.

I can list off other things that we can't do anything about (genes, circumstance, etc.), but still work against us:

- not being a billionaire

- not having Olympian athleticism

- not having genius level intellect

- not having model-like looks

Only 1% of women are 5'10" OR higher. It's the entire lump of women beyond that height, that only make up 1% of the population. Anyone over 6'2, as a woman would be extremely rare. 0.025 or something like that. It's been a while since I've seen a chart. This is exactly why models were so amazing rare creatures, with a career that demands you be above 5'10" and beautiful in every way.  Can you explain why you like tiny women OR rare women taller than yourself? That doesn't compute.

A chip on your shoulder is apparent to everyone. Don't focus on what you can't change about yourself, and no, most women are quite short, and don't give a shit about tall men. It's first impressions, and it's ohh ahh guesses about penis size, and it's that whole little girl feeling some women like around men that are as tall as their daddy. But, in your case, you'll need to develop and foster a well-adjusted personality, and success. Know what drives women wild? A career that supports a family with ease. Get out there and make that the goal. Women will come once you have the money in the bank to buy a house and settle down.

A person is sexy for their brain, attitude, and degree of success in life, the kind of success for a happy relationship of course. When you hang out with educated classy people who value and respect educated classy people, this superficial crap is not going to fly. Height in men is entirely genetic. Your heritage, one of your parents, simply isn't from that region of the world. Luck of the draw. If you're not attempting to be a celebrity model influencing mass media, it only takes one person to love you. That's the only person who's opinion matters. Short, plump, ugly, intelligent, downs, it's all the eye of the beholder. To each their own. Just don't be below average in all aspects of your life. Have goals.

Tahajud yang kurang membangkitkan semangat

1. Bertahajud tanpa mengerti maknanya. Banyak diantara kita  yang mendirikan shalat tahajud hanya sebatas pelampiasan rasa putus asa atau sebagai tempat pelarian dari kepenatan hidup. Memang itu tidak salah, tetapi tahajud sebenarnya memiliki makna yang lebih dalam dari itu semua. Mungkin kita punya banyak permasalahan dalam hidup. Kita memohon supaya Allah segera mengabulkannya. Tetapi, jika kita tidak mau mencari jawaban y ang tersembunyi dibalik tirai tahajud, mustahil kita mampu keluar dari masalah itu.

2. Menuntut Allah segera memberi jalan keluar Dari masalah, tapi enggan memohon petunjuk-Nya untuk bisa memperoleh hal itu. Banyak menuntut sudah menjadi sifat manusia. Namun, keengganan memohon petunjuk bisa menyebabkan kepasifan atau ketiadaan partisipasi diri. Kalau kita sendiri enggan mengubah nasib diri kita, mana mungkin Allah hendak mengubah nasib kita.

 3. Bertahajud tanpa mau merenungkan kehidupan. Cara bertahajud seperti ini tidak dapat memberikan perubahan dalam hidup. Bagaimana kehidupan akan berubah kalau seseorang tidak mau merenungkan kehidupannya. Cobalah bertanya dalam hati, apa yang telah anda lakukan dan sejauh mana usaha yang telah anda perbuat.

Sumber: The Ultimate Power of Shalat Tahajud, 2012, M. Shodiq Mustika

So go work on yourself.

Life is transient.

Your family dies, your friends move on, you move house, your marriage ends, your children move out to form their own lives, your job changes, the seasons change... Everything changes, it comes and goes and nothing lasts. The only constant in your life is you. People attract those similar to themselves, so when you level up yourself and your lifestyle. you attract those who are also higher. "We completed each other" - this is a problem. One should be complete without a relationship, then one is free to enjoy it without neediness, and crushing loneliness when it ends.

So just work on yourself and you'll get a better chance.

Perseverance only takes you so far

The beauty of life.

Mystery and adventure.

Everyone out there seeks some sort of solution, escape, or salvation, and somewhere out there, it exists. Somewhere out there, is the solution to everybody's problems. No matter what.

Somewhere out there is that one movie that you've never seen or book you've never read or song you've never heard or game you've never played, but if you do it would become your favorite of all time. Somewhere out there is that one job that's just right for you. Somewhere out there is the professional who knows the loophole that you can exploit if you still want food on your table. Somewhere out there, there is that one girl or guy who would fuck you regardless of how unattractive or disfigured you are.

And one thing that I find most unfair about this world, is that the people who died unhappy, didn't die that way because what they were looking for didn't exist. It is because it did exist, and probably still does. They just couldn't find it. I don't know whether or not to take comfort in the thought that even if you find the "solution, escape, or salvation", you'll have a new problem that requires a new "solution, escape, or salvation" the next day.

People will never be happy or satisfied, it's just part of being human. Evolution made us that way because that longing for the solution made us better animals.

You know what I think the saddest thing about life is?

Start out slow in 2010

Find meaning in life without bias. Stop comparing yourself to other people then realize life is only as mundane as you make it.

1. Think about what you would enjoy doing and do some research on it.

2. Find people/ clubs involved in that.

3. Expand social circle/ join club and do that shit.

For example: "man, this one time I tried skateboarding and fell on my ass a thousand times. But it was awesome and I wanna learn that shit!" See if you can invest the time & money to start doing whatever your awesome activity is. There's only one key ingredient here: ENERGY. You have to figure out a way to get yourself hyped up, energetic and motivated. It's a state of mind that feels like the manic episodes of someone bipolar, but it's exactly what's needed to counter any laziness you've got and get those plans going.