Start out slow in 2010

Find meaning in life without bias. Stop comparing yourself to other people then realize life is only as mundane as you make it.

1. Think about what you would enjoy doing and do some research on it.

2. Find people/ clubs involved in that.

3. Expand social circle/ join club and do that shit.

For example: "man, this one time I tried skateboarding and fell on my ass a thousand times. But it was awesome and I wanna learn that shit!" See if you can invest the time & money to start doing whatever your awesome activity is. There's only one key ingredient here: ENERGY. You have to figure out a way to get yourself hyped up, energetic and motivated. It's a state of mind that feels like the manic episodes of someone bipolar, but it's exactly what's needed to counter any laziness you've got and get those plans going.

About hooking up

So you're working out and getting buff so you are strong to do what?
"Getting women" as if they are objects to do what? Fuck them and forget about it? Some life. "Getting women" improves your social status amongst those who hi-five people for being "playa"s. Who gives a damn about being more social amongst those vapid wastes of food and employment?

Video games are a great way to have fun, and enjoy things that are availible to you in life. Not only this, but the making of a game is an art form - by playing through, say, an RPG, you are treated to a grand story that is just overwhelmingly more fufilling than going out, fucking some chick, hi-fiving yourself and calling it a night.

If you just date only one girl your whole life and then marry her, I'd say thats pretty nice too. Because that would be what love is.