Back From Hiatus

Jun-15        Dad's last visit to NYC           
Aug-15        D'Conte           
Oct-15        Business Plan thesis defense           
Nov-15        Moved to Money Market Dept.           
Dec-15        Masters Degree graduation   
                    Buy Nintendo 2DS       
Jan-16        11 Engaged           
Apr-16        Bought Andromax E2           
May-16        22 Married - Moved in Bekasi           
Jun-16        3 RIP Muhammad Ali           
Jul-16        Pokemon Go released           
Aug-16        16 RIP Brother in law           
Sep-16        Honeymoon to Bali   
                   Uninstall Marvel Avengers Alliance (played since 2013)       
Jan-17        Won Doorprize Oppo F1           
Feb-17        Moved to Cilandak because of flood in Bekasi           
Mar-17        Bought Dahon folding bike           
Jun-17        22 My son born   
                   Start play Mobile Legends       
Jul-17        Start play Arena of Valor           
Nov-17        Holiday to Royal Tulip- Bogor   
                    Bought SNES Classic       
Dec-17        17 Last Bandung trip with Dad   
                    Got legend skin for Estes       
Jan-18        Hemmorid operation   
                   28 RIP Dad       
Apr-18        Holiday to Singapore   
                   Uninstall Marvel Future Fight (played since May 2015)       
May-18        Brother return to Indonesia for good   
                   Moved to South Tangerang       
Jun-18        Son's first time to Malang-Kediri and visit great grand           
Aug-18        Holiday to Padang           
Sep-18        Brother accepted to Traveloka   
                   Son had eye       
Oct-18        Musholla Al-Hamaki groundbreaking
                   Buy Samsung A8+    codex skin murad    legend skin flash

Making new friend when depressed

Depression studies have shown that extroversion staves off depression faster than any behavioral method. It sounds odd and impossible making friends will be your best bet. Difficult life situations make seeing life in a different life nearly impossible, but your behavior will change your affect if you stick with it. Instead of addressing issues singularly, try attack multiples with certain activities. Also try new things.

Making friends isn't easy, but it's not impossible. If you find yourself inside a lot, just get outside. Go the the mall, walk around, check out shops, strike up conversations with the employees. Go to the park, dress casual and try not to look creepy, but just hang out and enjoy the sun on your face. Finding those who share interests is the easiest way. Play online games? Make online friends in those games. Coworkers show interest in certain music? Talk to them about it, and find out their other interests. 

The more practice you have with socialization, the easier talking to people will become. Once you've become comfortable talking to people, then making friends will be the next hurdle. Setting up times to hang out and finding activities of shared interest consistently is conducive to maintaining a friendship.

We all choose our friends, as much as they choose us. If you don't feel comfortable around someone, then it would be counterproductive to maintain a relationship with them. All relationships require work, as they don't simply just happen and continue. Take it one step at a time, and try not to rush it.

If you smoke, then finding others who smoke may benefit you as it is a shared interest. I made acquaintances in college because I smoked then. No shame in it. Just avoid people with serious drug problem or if they are into harder drugs than you would like to be a part of. Druggies are one issue, but pot users aren't inherently evil.