Natural selection does happen. It is now common for girl in the city to have 7 children from 5 different men by their mid twenties. The environment completely supports this irresponsible lifestyle and many people are actively taking advantage of this. Some people are rising above traditional roles and values because they are realizing that there is more to things than pure survival these days. Modern technology makes every body able to live a decent life with little to no effort, women don't need a big hulk to protect their brood, they may enjoy fulfilling their genetic prerogatives by having a manly father for their children but more and more other social factors are coming into play, such as fashion sense and wealth.
About nerdy women, guys talking about their ideal woman as shy and quiet, that it cannot be a coincidence; I would say the majority of men want a woman who is generally of their own mindset, so that they can relate to them better. Pretty logical, let's continue down this train of thought.. The fact that some men require a girl be into video games and hardly ever put any other requirements - it's never like passionate about life or oves to ride roller coasters or something like that - leads me to believe that they don't put anything else that the girl needs to relate to simply because they don't have anything else themselves that they can relate to.
On to second bit about the gender steryeotypes (something I'm sure I do every time a girl says hi and smiles at me) manages to completely miss the mark of what I was saying - so out of the kindness of my heart; typically, being a man or manning up has the connotation of being tough, headstrong, independant, etc - an alternative and less gender specific example would be for me to toughen up.
I am posting this entry because of the first part; it seemed to fit with the whole mantra of manning up and acting rationally (get out, go do something else, stop acting like a wuss) when the girl doesn't immediately leap at me. I do have guidelines; stop bitching, stop blaming the world and everyone else (parents, friends, life in general) for my problems, and start trying to fix them. Or stay in my room and cry myself to sleep as I slip deeper and deeper into a bitter rage at all that I could never attain.
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