I suppose that I am in part referring to gender roles. Human are animals (though I can't say much from religious perspective) and like animals male and female fulfill different roles. The average Joe doesn't want a girlfriend that doesn't shave and acts manlier than him. Likewise why would any woman want to be dating a effeminate man? That shit doesn't fly with natural selection.
A guy could be fucking obsessed with some girl and she could only just know of him. This could be something worth considering when he think he is being ignored. It's not like one would go out of his way to talk to some behind the scenes person at a cafe or supermarket is it? It's not like we are on an even footing either.
The thing is, people like me require their girls to like anime and or video games because there is literally so little else in ourlives that they have nothing else going for us; it is my sole interest, passion, hobby, and activity outside of whatever necessities I absolutely have to do to survive. So when a girl comes along who isn't similarly into video games, I have absolutely nothing to relate with them about, or even talk to them about for any extended period of time.
It is reasonable, and it is logical. Most guys look for a woman that they can relate to or have a decent conversation with - and if they're looking for a long term relationship, the base instinct is to find someone who is like themselves and thus, easy to get along with. If they share the same interests, then it's assured you will have something to do/ talk about/ share with each other for quite some time.
A guy could be fucking obsessed with some girl and she could only just know of him. This could be something worth considering when he think he is being ignored. It's not like one would go out of his way to talk to some behind the scenes person at a cafe or supermarket is it? It's not like we are on an even footing either.
The thing is, people like me require their girls to like anime and or video games because there is literally so little else in ourlives that they have nothing else going for us; it is my sole interest, passion, hobby, and activity outside of whatever necessities I absolutely have to do to survive. So when a girl comes along who isn't similarly into video games, I have absolutely nothing to relate with them about, or even talk to them about for any extended period of time.
It is reasonable, and it is logical. Most guys look for a woman that they can relate to or have a decent conversation with - and if they're looking for a long term relationship, the base instinct is to find someone who is like themselves and thus, easy to get along with. If they share the same interests, then it's assured you will have something to do/ talk about/ share with each other for quite some time.
No comments:
Post a Comment